I think ppl in general are just confused and don't really know what they want. Everyone has preferences and prejudices and don't know how to draw a line between the two. ( I talk about this with my female friends all the time).
We have so many double standards. Girls get mad when guys say they don't like fat girls, but would you date a man thats shorter than you??????
Some women will, but to all the women who just curled up thier lip by just reading that, EXACTLY. Point taken?
There's nothing wrong with big guys or big girls. Some people dont like to date ppl who are lightskinned, darkskinned, fat, skinny, tall, short, nappy, permed, stink, vegetarian, capricorn or a million other combinations. The problem is that we take it too personal. I know a guy who only likes girls who are cute, thick, short, darkskinned with large breast (DD minimum). So no matter how beautiful you are, if you're not in that mold, he wouldn't be attracted to ya. Does that mean something is wrong with you? 'Course not!
If a person doesn't like big girls, that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the other person. If you feel that you need a change yourself, then go for it, but don't try to change for someone or worse try to change someone else. NEXT!! Move on and find the person thats right for you. That wants you bc of who you are.
I'm sorry but I'm not one of those hunters, I'm too grown to chase. If you wanna run I'll be the first to let you go. I dont think ppl should be trying to sell yourself to someone when theres always someone out there thats dying to be with you.
We need to stop trying to force feed beef to a vegetarian when there are plenty of steak lovers to go around, if you step outside the tunnel vision of what you "think" you want.
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